From the first second that a man and a woman start a relationship to the last second when the relationship is ended, there always need for a mutual beneficial exchange.

The exchange needs to be in such a way that both parties will be happy with what they are receiving and with what they are giving from/to the other partner.

A woman will generally want a guy who is manly and confident. A man will generally want a beautiful woman.

The woman “offers” her good looks (this is the “money” which she takes to the “marketplace”) and the guy “offers” his manhood.

When the guy “gives” the woman what she wants and the woman “gives” him in return what he wants, the trading is considered a success.

The problems in the “trading” start to happen when one sex doesn’t receive what they want to receive from the other “sex”.

There are a lot of reasons, which cannot be fully explained in this article, men and women will generally not be brutal when they feel that they didn’t get what they want from the other partner.

A woman, for example, will generally not say to a guy a sentence like:

“I am looking for A, B, C in a guy and you gave me X, Y, and Z”

She will more likely to say:

“Oh, didn’t I tell you that I have a boyfriend??”

“I hope that we can just be good friends from now on”

“I kind of busy lately, so I don’t have time to meet”

Guys hear a lot of “rejection” sentences from women when women feel that they didn’t receive what they wanted.

The “problem” with these sentences is that they are often confusing for most guys. Most guys tend to focus on words instead of meaning and on what the women did to them instead of what they did to the women.

To say that most women are sluts is like saying that most sellers are idiots. Both are not, they just want “payment” for what you want to buy from them.

So next time, when you hear a question from a woman like:

“Can we just be good friends from now on?”

Say to yourself this sentence before getting upset:

“Did I pay for what I wanted to buy?”

Let’s be honest between us guys for a second! You will not work (if you are working) in your current job if your workplace is not willing to pay you for your efforts.

Moreover, you will think twice before going out with a woman who you consider as ugly or not esthetic.

We guys do to women exactly what they are doing to us, yet for some reason we consider their rejections as ugly and idiotic and our rejections as reasonable and unavoidable.

It all boils down to one thing: ego.

The ego makes us focus on the interpretations for the rejections instead of the logical reasons of the rejections.

When you are THE MAN, meaning you are confident, self-validated, the controller and the dominator, you indirectly give women what they want from a man – manhood.

Yet when you don’t have these characteristics to offer, you are like a thief who is trying to take something without paying for it.

Think about it.