Hi everybody,me and my bf of 5 years are planning to get married,I’m very happy and looking forward to it..but I’m also a little bit confused..what if he cheats on? From what I see,hear and read there are always more and more men who cheat on their significant one…while I think most women arefaithful and cheated on… Now I?m asking why do men cheat on their wives ? And above all why are men the cheaters most of the time and not the ones who get cheated on?
PS: Of course I don’t want to generalize nor offend somebody,I’m Just curious…
Thanks!
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thats not true at all loads of women do to and that has broken up millions of marriages
Think about the positive, not the negative! If your bf was a cheater, he would have already cheated on you by now! So, just relax and enjoy your life! FORGET ABOUT CHEATING!
they dont men are just more careless than women. thats all.
Do not live in fantasy,. If he is loyal, Love him and be a great wife. Men can look for free, bu not toughing.
Men do cheat, and that is because they think with the wrong head. Women cheat too because they sometimes lose their head. No acceptable in any case for trust.
who do you think the men are cheating with? usually someone else wife. if you already have a trust issue then don’t get married. don’t get married on “what if’.” it will never work. people getting married have to trust each other up front. if you have any doubt what so ever, then think it through real hard first.
From my experience (friends, husband, many more), women cheat just as much as men (I am my hubby’s 3rd long-term partner and the other 2 aren’t here because they both cheated….). There is no justification for cheating, but if you have a happy and healthy relationship it shouldn’t happen. However, some people just have some inbuilt crap that causes it to happen!!
You have asked this question why? Are you having trust issues about your bf? If you are reconsidering because you are not sure you trust him, you should not get married. Trust is a major part of your marriage, and lacking trust in your boyfriend can ruin your relationship, so you either need to have trust or finish the relationship.
I’m not sure I believe that men cheat more then women, I think men simply get caught more.
Don’t worry about what may be, just trust him and love him and hope for the best – it’s all we can do!
Generally speaking, men seem to be hardwired to want a lot of sex and will go outside of the marriage for the sex and the thrill of it (the forbidden fruit thing).
Once again, generally speaking, women are the “nest builders” and less likely to jeopardize their marriage with an outside tryst.
Not all men cheat. I hope that your man is one of the ones who are so happy to have a great home life that he doesn’t want to look elsewhere.
Best wishes in your future marriage.
You may not have meant to offend, but you have anyway.
Let me ask you a question…. who are these husbands cheating with? Other blokes?? Or females?
I imagine mainly females.
Are these females also married? You know….the “faithful wives” you are talking about? Or are they perhaps just random women who don’t mind sleeping with married men?
What I am alluding to is this…. not every marriage will work.
Not every marriage will fail due to extramarital affairs.
Not every marriage will fail either!
If your husband ends up cheating on you, that will be the consequence of any number of reasons……but the main one being that he just did not love you the way you wanted him to love you….exclusively.
This may have been the case many years ago but I believe
women have caught up to the men on the cheating chart.
Your problem is that you are generalising. Where did you obtain the statistical basis for your claim? Curiosity is not factual. If you are so doubtful about trusting your BF, then you have the answer.
man is by nature polygamous.during ancient times they were allowed to have many wives and concubines.but women were expected to be devoted to their husband.if they were caught with another man they were put to death.but as the world progress laws were changed.so now the sanctity of marriage is sacred.but if we think back there were man who were faithful during those times.and i think if you will trace that line you will find your bf name.so don’t worry!
I aint ready to marry….plus….there are no absolute truths in life….this quesiton poses absolute truth when really…women cheat just as much as men today…just ask my wife who left a great marraige and 3 kids for dudes half her age…(she is 34)
Women and Men both cheat! It is not a gender issue. Men get caught more often, women are crafty at covering their tracks.
The urge to put it in is stronger than allowing it to go in. Go and see a stallion and a mare. And do not be so afraid of his cheating. If he does not overdo it, then that is just the sign of his heath. Tell him that he may tell you all of these activities, if happens, and you will support him to do it in a limited fashion and degree. He will use his libido, and you will be informed about all the details. And you will have a happy marriage.
You don’t offend, but you do generalize, and perhaps not accurately. Many men and women may cheat, but if your boyfriend’s behaved well for 5 years, I don’t see why you’d expect him to change for the worse.
Men and women who do cheat do so for similar reasons. Some have emotional problems that lead to impulsive behavior, which you’d likely have noticed in your boyfriend by now. Otherwise, it’s usually a symptom of unresolved issues in a marriage that have usually left both partners unhappy, and it’s fairly simple for most of us to agree, as per our marriage vows, to work out those issues rather than avoid the unhappiness at home by sleeping with someone else.
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